The Ultimate Puglia Family Itinerary: A 7-Day Luxury Holiday in Southern Italy
- Shanti | The Kensington Diary
- Apr 30, 2023
- 13 min read
Updated: Jul 7
If you're searching for an Italian destination that balances beautiful beaches, authentic culture and exceptional food without the crowds of Tuscany or the Amalfi Coast, Puglia deserves a place at the very top of your list.
Located in Italy's southern heel, Puglia has quietly become one of our favourite destinations for luxury family travel. While much of the international attention focuses on Rome, Florence or the Amalfi Coast, Puglia still feels wonderfully authentic. Italian families have holidayed here for generations, giving the region a relaxed atmosphere that immediately makes you feel part of everyday Italian life rather than simply another visitor.
What makes Puglia particularly special is its diversity. One day you can wander through UNESCO World Heritage towns built from centuries-old limestone trulli, the next you can swim in crystal-clear Adriatic waters before enjoying fresh burrata produced only a few kilometres away. It is a destination where food, culture, history and coastline come together effortlessly, making it ideal for families who want to combine relaxation with exploration.
Having now travelled through several very different regions of Italy including the spectacular Dolomites during our stay at Feuerstein Nature Family Resort, Puglia offers a completely different experience. Instead of dramatic mountain scenery and alpine adventures, life here revolves around fishing villages, olive groves, historic masserie and long Mediterranean lunches. Together, they showcase just how wonderfully diverse luxury family travel in Italy can be.
Contents
Getting to Puglia
I first learnt about Puglia and it's neighbouring region Basilicata from popular movie scenes. 'No time to die' was filmed in Matera and 'Pinnochio' in Polignano a Mare. As such a large diverse region with so many beautiful little towns to visit, it is a perfect retreat for families and couples alike.
Travelling to Puglia is remarkably straightforward, making it an excellent choice for a luxury family holiday, even with younger children. The region is served by two international airports: Bari in the north and Brindisi in the south. Which airport you choose depends largely on your itinerary, although they are only around two hours apart by road. From London Puglia is just a short 2 hour direct flight away via British Airways.
We flew directly from London in just over two hours before hiring a car, which I would strongly recommend. One of the joys of a Puglia family itinerary is discovering its many beautiful towns, coastal villages and countryside masserie, something that is much easier with your own transport.
Driving is relaxed, distances are relatively short and the roads are straightforward, allowing families to explore at their own pace.
Our 7-Day Puglia Family Itinerary
Our aim was to create an itinerary that balanced cultural exploration with genuine downtime.
Rather than constantly changing hotels, we chose two exceptional bases, allowing us to experience both Puglia's coastline and its historic towns without spending hours packing and unpacking.
During the first half of our stay we based ourselves in Savelletri di Fasano, enjoying time at the extraordinary Borgo Egnazia, one of Italy's finest luxury family resorts. The resort itself deserves an article of its own, so if you're deciding where to stay in Puglia I highly recommend reading my detailed Borgo Egnazia review, where I share everything from the family facilities and restaurants to the spa and children's experiences.
For the second half of our holiday we moved to Masseria Il Melograno near Monopoli, using it as a base to explore Polignano a Mare, Alberobello and nearby Matera. Using two hotels created exactly the balance we were hoping for slow mornings by the pool followed by afternoons exploring some of southern Italy's most beautiful destinations.
Where to Stay in Puglia
One of the decisions that will shape your Puglia family itinerary more than anything else is where you choose to stay.
Rather than moving hotels every night, I would recommend choosing one or two carefully positioned bases and exploring from there. Distances are relatively short, roads are easy to navigate and this allows you to enjoy both the extraordinary hotels and the beautiful towns without constantly packing and unpacking.
For the first half of our stay, we based ourselves in Savelletri di Fasano at the exceptional Borgo Egnazia. Designed as a traditional Apulian village, it is far more than a luxury hotel. With outstanding restaurants, beautiful pools, a renowned spa and excellent children's facilities, it deserves time to experience in its own right rather than simply using it as somewhere to sleep.
For the second half of our trip, we moved to Masseria Il Melograno, just outside Monopoli. This gave us easy access to Polignano a Mare, Alberobello and Matera while experiencing another side of Puglia's famous masseria culture. Using two hotels created exactly the balance we were looking for: several days to completely relax, followed by several days of exploration without ever feeling rushed.
Savelletri di Fasano
If you're looking for a slower, more restorative side of Puglia, Savelletri di Fasano is one of the region's loveliest places to base yourself.
This tiny fishing village, part of the municipality of Fasano, sits peacefully along the Adriatic coastline and immediately captures the relaxed rhythm that makes southern Italy so appealing. Unlike some of Puglia's busier towns, Savelletri is a place where mornings begin with fishing boats returning to the harbour, afternoons are spent by the sea, and long seafood lunches naturally extend into the evening. It is equally suited to families seeking a slower-paced holiday and couples looking for an elegant coastal escape.
We absolutely loved it here.
The coastline offers plenty of opportunities for swimming, snorkelling and diving, while the surrounding area is home to many of Puglia's most beautiful masserie—traditional fortified farmhouses that have been lovingly transformed into some of Italy's finest luxury hotels. If you're planning a Puglia family holiday, this area offers the perfect balance between relaxation and exploration.
Our own stay at Borgo Egnazia was the ideal introduction to the region. Designed to resemble a traditional Apulian village, it combines exceptional family facilities with outstanding restaurants, a beautiful spa and easy access to the surrounding coastline. If you're deciding where to stay, I've written a detailed review of Borgo Egnazia that explores everything from the family experiences to the restaurants and wellness facilities.
During the summer months, Savelletri becomes incredibly popular with both Italian and European families. Reservations at the region's most sought-after masserie are often secured many months in advance, while the beach clubs (known locally as lidi) quickly fill with visitors making the most of the warm Adriatic waters. Many of the beaches here are sandy, sheltered and particularly well suited to younger children.
Beyond the coastline, Savelletri also offers wonderful opportunities to discover Puglia's agricultural heritage. Endless olive groves surround the village, many producing some of Italy's finest extra virgin olive oil, while several farms and hotels offer authentic pasta-making experiences with local nonnas, providing a lovely way for children to engage with traditional Italian culture.
Families should also consider visiting Zoosafari Fasano, one of Europe's largest wildlife parks, or exploring the nearby archaeological site of Scavi d'Egnazia, where remarkably preserved Roman ruins provide a fascinating insight into the region's ancient past.
Most of the Puglian resorts or farms called Masserias that are now converted into beautiful resorts for seaside holidays, are dotted along this area. So, if you are seeking a more relaxed holiday ocean-centric holiday, but want to absorb what Puglia has to offer, this is the place to be. In Summer the area is packed to the brim with Italian and European tourists striving to get as close to the lidos as they can, and bookings at the masserias go very quickly, talking to the popularity of this area. Many of the beaches are sandy with wonderful beach clubs and are very child-friendly.
As the region is filled with olive groves, there is the opportunity to observe how olive oil is produced and some hotels also run very authentic pasta making courses from Italian nonnas (grandmothers). Kids will also love a visit Fasano Zoo and Safari Park or see the Roman ruins at Scavi D’Egnazia.
Monopoli
Situated around 30 kilometres south of Bari, Monopoli is one of those towns that quietly surprises you. While it may not receive the same international attention as neighbouring Polignano a Mare, it has an authenticity that makes it one of my favourite stops on a Puglia family itinerary.
Historically, Monopoli's strategic position on the Adriatic made it an important trading port, and its fortified sea walls, bastions and imposing castle still tell the story of centuries spent defending the coastline. Today, however, it feels wonderfully relaxed, with its whitewashed old town, lively piazzas and picturesque fishing harbour creating a destination that is both beautiful and incredibly easy to explore with children.
One of the things we particularly enjoyed was that Monopoli is compact enough to discover entirely on foot. We wandered through Piazza XX Settembre, where colourful local markets regularly take place, before exploring the impressive cathedral and gradually making our way towards the sea. Along the waterfront you'll pass the elegant Church of Santa Maria della Zaffira, historic cannon-mounted bastions and the magnificent Charles V Castle, originally built in 1552 to protect the harbour. If you have time, climb to the top of the castle for panoramic views across the Adriatic coastline—they are well worth it.
Beyond the castle walls, the atmosphere changes once again as you arrive at the harbour itself. Fishing boats gently bob alongside the quay while local fishermen unload the morning's catch, a reminder that Monopoli remains a working port rather than simply a tourist destination. We loved watching daily life unfold before stopping for an obligatory Italian gelato.
Families should also make time for the small sandy beach nestled beside the old town. The calm, turquoise waters make it an ideal place for children to paddle or swim before continuing your exploration of the narrow streets and hidden piazzas that give Monopoli so much of its charm.
Polignano a Mare
Few places capture the imagination quite like Polignano a Mare.
Perched dramatically on twenty-metre-high limestone cliffs overlooking the Adriatic Sea, it is undoubtedly one of the most photographed towns in southern Italy, yet somehow still manages to exceed expectations when you see it in person.
The town itself is a delight to explore. Narrow cobbled streets wind between whitewashed buildings, colourful balconies overflow with flowers, and charming cafés appear around almost every corner. Despite its popularity, it remains surprisingly manageable with children, and we found ourselves happily wandering for hours, discovering hidden viewpoints and stopping regularly to admire the spectacular coastal scenery. In fact, we enjoyed it so much that we returned for a second visit during our stay.
The origins of Polignano date back to the fourth century BC, and throughout its history it has occupied a spectacular position overlooking the sea. Today it is perhaps best known for its annual cliff-diving competitions, where athletes leap from the towering limestone cliffs into the crystal-clear waters below.
Throughout the town you'll discover numerous panoramic terraces offering breathtaking views across the Adriatic. Each one seems somehow more spectacular than the last, making Polignano a photographer's dream at almost every turn.
The undeniable highlight, however, is Cala Monachile. Nestled between soaring white limestone cliffs, this iconic cove has become synonymous with Puglia itself. Its vivid turquoise water, dramatic setting and distinctive stone beach have featured in countless travel photographs, and standing above it for the first time, it's easy to understand why.
During the height of summer the beach becomes incredibly popular, so arriving early in the morning or later in the afternoon offers a much more relaxed experience. Even if you don't plan to swim, it is undoubtedly one of the most beautiful coastal viewpoints anywhere in Italy.
Film enthusiasts may also recognise Polignano a Mare from Disney's live-action Pinocchio, while nearby Matera famously featured in Daniel Craig's No Time To Die, making this corner of southern Italy increasingly familiar on the big screen.
Alberobello
No Puglia family itinerary would be complete without visiting Alberobello, one of Italy's most enchanting UNESCO World Heritage Sites.
Located in the heart of the Valle d'Itria, Alberobello looks almost as though it has been lifted from the pages of a storybook. Hundreds of traditional trulli, the distinctive whitewashed limestone houses topped with conical stone roofs, climb the hillsides before giving way to rolling countryside filled with olive groves, vineyards and farmland producing olive oil, white wines and the region's famous capocollo ham.
We spent half a day exploring Alberobello, although it would have been very easy to stay much longer. Walking through its winding streets, it is impossible not to wonder what life must have been like for the families who have lived inside these remarkable homes for generations. The oldest surviving trulli date back to the sixteenth century and remain one of the most distinctive architectural styles anywhere in Europe.
There are two main districts to explore.
Rione Monti is the larger and more iconic area, where rows of beautifully preserved trulli now house artisan boutiques, cafés and local craft shops. Unsurprisingly, it is also the busiest part of Alberobello and attracts the majority of organised tours throughout the day.
Across the main road lies Aia Piccola, a much quieter residential district that offers a completely different atmosphere. Although smaller, it feels considerably less commercialised and provides a better glimpse into everyday life within the trulli community.
One of the things we most enjoyed was speaking with local shopkeepers, many of whom still live or work inside these historic buildings. Hearing their stories brought the town to life in a way that guidebooks simply cannot.
Matera
Although Matera technically lies just beyond the Puglian border in neighbouring Basilicata, I cannot imagine planning a Puglia family itinerary without including it. It is simply too extraordinary to miss.
Often described as one of the oldest continuously inhabited cities in the world, Matera's story is unlike anywhere else in Europe. During the 1950s it became known as "the shame of Italy" because of the extreme poverty and poor living conditions within its ancient cave districts. Families who had lived there for generations were relocated, leaving parts of the city abandoned for the first time in almost 10,000 years.
Today, Matera has undergone one of Europe's most remarkable transformations.
Following its designation as a UNESCO World Heritage Site in 1993 and later as a European Capital of Culture in 2019, careful restoration has brought the city back to life. Descendants of many of the original families have returned to open boutique hotels, restaurants and artisan workshops, breathing new life into this extraordinary landscape.
The city gained international recognition after featuring in films including The Passion of the Christ and, more recently, Daniel Craig's No Time To Die, yet no film truly captures the atmosphere of standing within the ancient stone districts themselves.
The historic heart of Matera is divided into two remarkable neighbourhoods: Sasso Caveoso and Sasso Barisano. Built into natural limestone caves carved into the hillside, they form an astonishing landscape of churches, monasteries, homes and palaces that appear to tumble down the ravine.
By day, the architecture is breathtaking.
By dusk, as golden light reflects against the pale limestone, Matera becomes one of the most romantic places we visited anywhere in Italy.
Allow plenty of time simply to wander. Some of our favourite moments came from turning down quiet alleyways, discovering hidden viewpoints and admiring the intricate network of staircases and ancient streets that connect the city.
Highlights include the Cathedral, Chiesa di San Pietro Caveoso, and the many cave churches scattered throughout the Sassi. Although many visitors arrive on day trips, I would strongly recommend spending a night here if your itinerary allows. Once the day-trippers leave, Matera reveals an entirely different atmosphere that is impossible to experience during the busiest hours of the day.
For us, it became one of the most unforgettable destinations of our entire Italian journey.
Practical Tips for Visiting Puglia with Children
If you're planning your first Puglia family holiday, there are a few things that will make your trip considerably easier.
Rent a car
Unlike Rome or Florence, Puglia is a destination best explored by road. While trains connect some of the larger towns, many of the region's most beautiful villages, beaches and luxury hotels are much easier to reach by car. Distances are relatively short, roads are generally excellent, and driving allows you to explore at your own pace.
How many days do you need?
Although it's possible to see some of Puglia in just a long weekend, I would recommend at least seven days. This gives you enough time to combine beach days with cultural exploration without constantly moving accommodation. If you have longer, ten days or even two weeks allows you to venture further south towards Lecce and the Salento Peninsula, while also enjoying a slower pace that suits family travel perfectly.
When is the best time to visit?
Spring and early autumn are, in my opinion, the perfect seasons for families. Temperatures are warm without becoming overwhelming, beaches are quieter and sightseeing is far more enjoyable with younger children. Summer offers wonderful beach weather and a lively atmosphere, but it is also the busiest period. Many Italians holiday in Puglia during July and August, particularly around Ferragosto, so booking accommodation well in advance is essential.
Is Puglia suitable for toddlers?
Absolutely.Many of the beaches have calm, shallow water, the towns are compact enough to explore without long walks, and the relaxed pace makes travelling with younger children far less stressful than many busy European cities. For families with older children, Puglia also offers enough variety to keep everyone engaged, from boat trips and snorkelling to exploring castles, Roman ruins and UNESCO World Heritage Sites.
Why Puglia Became One of Our Favourite Family Destinations in Italy
Looking back on our time in Puglia, it isn't one particular town or landmark that stays with me.
It's the rhythm of the region.
It is mornings wandering quiet fishing villages before the crowds arrive. Long lunches overlooking the Adriatic. Children running through ancient piazzas with an ice cream in hand. Conversations with local shopkeepers inside centuries-old trulli. Watching fishermen unload their catch as life continues much as it has for generations.
Puglia encourages a slower, more intentional way of travelling. Rather than rushing from one attraction to the next, it invites families to immerse themselves in local culture, spend time together and appreciate the everyday moments that so often become the most memorable.
Having now explored several regions across Italy, including the spectacular mountain landscapes of the Dolomites, I love how completely different each destination feels. While the Dolomites offer outdoor adventure, hiking and alpine wellness, Puglia celebrates Mediterranean living through food, history, coastline and community. Together, they perfectly illustrate why Italy continues to be one of our favourite countries for luxury family travel.
Whether you're planning your first visit or returning to discover another corner of southern Italy, Puglia is a region that rewards curiosity, encourages exploration and reminds you that some of the best family holidays are the ones where life simply slows down.
Planning Your Puglia Family Holiday
If you're considering a luxury family holiday in Puglia, I'd be delighted to help. Having explored the region ourselves and experienced many of its leading luxury hotels, I now help families plan bespoke Italian itineraries through my Luxury Formative Family Travel Advisory Service.
Whether you're deciding between different areas of Puglia, choosing the right luxury hotel for your family or combining Puglia with destinations such as the Dolomites, Tuscany or the Amalfi Coast, I can help you create an itinerary tailored specifically to your family's interests and the ages of your children.
When booking through my preferred travel partner programme, you'll also enjoy additional benefits at selected luxury hotels, including hotel credit, complimentary early check-in and late check-out (subject to availability), alongside any exclusive offers available at the time of booking.
If you're interested in staying at Borgo Egnazia, or would like help planning a wider luxury family journey through Italy, I'd be delighted to help.
Much Love
Shanti
The Kensington Diary
XXX
Comments